Ever feel like your spouse or child is from another planet?
Well...maybe they're just from another culture!
LifeWorks hints on cultural differences: If you find you and your spouse arguing over even 2 or 3 of the following ISSUES, you may consider learning more about your marriage's cultural differences:
In-laws and parental involvement in your marriage and family.
husband, wife, children's roles, responsibilities, and expectations.
Priorities and values in making decisions, handling finances, and dealing with family members.
Something is said or done that feels innocent to one spouse, while outrageous to another.
Something is said or done that leaves one spouse feeling hurt, while the other feels normal.
Maybe some things are getting lost in translation. In today's world, marriages blend not only two people, but two very different cultures and ways of thinking. Even if you're not in a mixed marriage, you and your spouse may be experiencing some serious cultural differences that make communicating and understanding one another difficult. We can help with the translation and get your relationship back on track!
If you find you are experiencing any of the following ISSUES with your TEENAGER, you may consider learning more about your child's cultural differences
.Poor communication with your teen suggests you are speaking different languages.
Their friends are more influential on your teen than are you or your spouse.
There is much confusion in understanding why your teen does what he/she does.
Our society is changing faster than ever before. The world in which we lived as adolescents is completely different from what today's teenager faces. It's hard enough to communicate effectively with your kids, adding differences in culture and language doesn't make things any easier. There are ways of bridging the gap and making yourself relevant in their world again. With some hard work and a willingness to learn, you and your family can regain a sense of understanding and unity. Help is available.
Bridging the Gaps with Your Teen: Dealing with the Generational and Cultural Divide.
"Who are you?!": Making Racially or Culturally Mixed Marriages Work.
In the Family: Dealing with Differences with Spouses, In-Laws, and Parenting Styles.
Boundaries for Life: Dealing with Depression and Anger.
Biblical Relationships: Understanding God's Design for Marriage, Family, and Church.
Learn more about Ly Tran.
Email: ltran@wefixbrains.com